Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Some Truth abt Guys

Some Truth abt Guys!!!

(Gals must see)


Just for ur pleasure, I’ve put this post up. In my humble opinion, I think that most of the things written in this post are true.

I dont take credit for this, just an interesting email forward. leave ur comments

1. Guys hate sluts.

2. “Hey, are you busy?” or “Are you doing something?” ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they’re gonna say so there aren’t awkward pauses, but once he’s on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they are going for the “let her complain to you and then have her realize how wonderful and nice you are” method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.

10. Don’t talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they’d like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind..” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys’ weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It’s good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don’t let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn’t notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy’s confused, then we’re all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he’s probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me.”

37. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know somethings up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you’re with your boyfriend, he’s probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he’s definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don’t be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He’s just too stubborn to admit it

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Dreams or Reality

Dreams or Reality

 

 

   The dictionary meaning of word dream is a series of images, ideas, emotions, and sensations occurring involuntarily in the mind during certain stages of sleep. And that of reality is the quality or state of being actual or true. The two are poles apart but what if we make the north one south and south one north. What if the dream which we see is real and the reality we live in is a dream. After reading this line, half of people would have perceived me as insane but this is the greatest doubt I have ever since I have grown old.

 

We perceive dream as dream as reality as reality because we have been told so since times immemorial but same was the case when it was considered that earth is flat. But now everyone knows that earth is round and earth being flat was complete no no. well moving on to my topic, dreams or reality (or rather I shall say are dreams reality?)…people think that dreams are not real as once the person opens his/her eyes ..Whatever images he has been seeing vanishes in a second but then how can reality be real? As soon as we close our eyes the images of the world also vanish. If I put it in simple words we can’t see stars in day time when sun is shining its brightest but that doesn’t mean that stars are not there in the sky…stars are always there and sometimes these stars are bigger and brighter than sun. Whenever we are dreaming we are away and totally disconnected from the reality and in that dream we become so much engrossed that we become unable to distinguish between the dream and reality. And same is the case when we are wide awake and totally disconnected from the dream world. The poles seem to be away from each other and never coincide or overlap each other. And hence it renders us helpless to ever think that which world is real?

 

When we are into a nightmare, we get so frightened that sometimes we even scream or fall from our bed. When something frightens us in real world then too we scream so where is that thin line which says that no what u saw was a dream and this is reality. It can also be that the world which we are living in is a dream which we are watching and the one which we are dreaming is real. Who knows?

 

There are things such as black magick in which one can harm without any physical contact and this seems almost impossible that how a person can harm without doing anything but still it is there. Black magic is prevalent and everyone in his or her life has somehow and somewhere accepted that black magick happens for sure. There are people who experience deva-ju. That’s also real. There is tarot, nature, Psychics and everything which has no scientific reason but is true. Think upon the question I have raised and I m sure that somewhere within you there will be a starting question.

 

Through this blog I wish to put forward my point that the dream world can be real and the real world in which we are living can be a dream.